"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dealing with a girl younger than you?

Jokerlsk

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Ok, so I'm a junior, and this girl is a sophomore. I have this one class with her, and because the computer lab was full, her, me, one of my friends, and this other girl had to go to the library to work on stuff. So I got to know her and stuff. The one draw back I ALWAYS HAVE is my little sister who is one year below me. A lot of girls don't like her because she's amazing at singing and they all got jealous and started rumors, sooooooooooooo. I'm pretty sure this one chick doesn't like my sister. This girl is popular in her grade, and i'm just kind of like a satellite in my grade. School started 2 weeks ago exactly, and I keep getting this AFC mindset. I'm getting really sick of it. It's like i've lost a lot of confidence or something. Any advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jakes21

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Just have fun and flirt with her..if she says sumthing disrespectful of your sister then its a diffrent story.
 

Guitar_Whizz

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It seems like you're caring what others think too much. If you genuinely like this girl, just talk to her and ask her out. Man up, grow some balls and enjoy being with her if it works out.

Let us know what happens.
 
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