"This type of woman" is being judged solely by admitted estimations on the topic poster's part. I don't really know how you estimate such a thing. 5 that you know of is the number you shold be basing any judgements on, provided that you got that info from reliable sources. Any estimation is just you assuming certain things to be fact without a solid basis. I hit one girl when we were 17, and had I based my desicion on random hearsay, conjecture, and locker-room bragging, I would have had to estimate her being with roughly 20 guys between those who said they did her and those who said they
knew someone else did her. But when she and I hit the sack for the first time, I felt her hymen break, which means that either my school was populated by dozens of guys with two inch d!cks,
or everything I'd heard about her was wrong. Guys lie about sexual conquests on a regular basis, and if you haven't seen the type of behavior in her to back up the type of claim that she is promiscuous, why are you giving it any creedence?
Second (and this is more of a personal moral stance which I don't fault anyone for disagreeing with), WHO CARES?!? I'm dumb-founded that anyone is so worked up over even the assumed/estimated number of 8-10 different guys with being with her. That doesn't seem excessive to me at all. As long as we're estimating things, estimate that she lost her virginity at 16 which is not uncommon. Even using the worst case estimate of 10, that's just two guys a year up to this point. Hell when I was 20, I was having sex with at least one new girl a month. I think I'd go crazy if I just got two a year. In my (no so) humble opinion, two guys a year is not even close to anything to worry about,
provided that she is not giving any other indications of excessively slutty behavior. 4-5 guys a year average, yeah, I'd be a litle concerned or just downright put off, but two? Jeez man, what do you want, a nun?
Adrian said:
When you sense a problem and it really bothers you it’s happening for a reason and a logical one at that......
And this is just asinine. This is akin to saying that you have a problem with her driving a red car, but because you have a problem with it, it can only be that she's doing something wrong. There's nothing logical about that. I have to concede, if it really does bother you that much, then you should consider ending the relationship, but do so with the knowledge that it's you who is being judgemental and applying your moral structure to her actions, not her doing (or having done) something wrong. If the thought of even five really bothers you that much, you'd better start looking for 16 year olds. Regardless, make the choice based on what you know, not what you estimate.
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