"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hell695

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i had this time before when i was a afc and now i've started becoming dj but i'm still not sure how with this deal- i was talkin to this girl in class and it was good we were havin good convo and all but this these a$$hole$ wouldn't stop hollering at me in the middle of class and i stood up for myself and all but never all out because i don't wonna so this girl how scary my temper can be but i want some input on how to deal with these fvcking idiot in the future i mean these guys were more then ****blocks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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skirtChaser

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look her right in the eye, smile, and say "man...these guys are always trying to get my attention, I think they are jelous I'm talking to you and not them", then laugh a little and say "lets go someplace quite and have some coffee and water"...as you walk away smile and wave to your butt buddies.
 

Evzone

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Man I'm glad I'm done with high school. In college if someone is disruptive the professor will just kick them out and not ask questions.
 
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