"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DC guys, need some restaruant recommendations.

J

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Going to DC to hang out with a girl this weekend and am looking for a nice place to have dinner. Yes, a little bit for her, but also because I'm treating myself to a vacation. I haven't been to DC since I was 15 or so, and am looking for any recommendations. If I had to lean one way or another, I'd say a classic steak or fish house is probably a better bet then the latest trend. Someplace a bit darker, a bit more cozy. Price really isn't a big issue; I'd like to not max my credit card, but anything price comparable to The Palm or Smith and Wollensky is cool. Yes, I know there is a Palm in DC, but I frequent the ones in Miami and New York and although I am going to reserve a table there, I was looking for a local alternative. Hey, I'm in DC, why not sample something unique?

Thanks guys! Mods, I don't usually do this, but I'm also posting this in the other forums just to get more exposure just this one time.

-Mike
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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