"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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David DeAngelo's ****yComedy DvD worth it?

shandy_cdo

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Might we be misinterpreted as conceited with C & F?

Hi, I'm a filipino and I'm still not through watching Dave's DYD and ****y and funny, but is it really safe for me to apply what I've learned from it? Coz I might be misinterpreted as too confident or conceited. Does David suggest or advice us to be conceited guys?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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pimpfromdayone

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He doesn't want you to try to act conceited, but ****iness won't hurt you. ****y/Funny is basically taking a slightly arrogant statement and adding humor to it, so you might come off as a bit arrogant at times, but once again you are better off seeming conceited than being seen as unconfident.

One thing he does mention is that guys who are really physically attractive should tone down the coc-kiness a little bit so they don't risk being seen as arrogant ass-holes. Even then, there really isn't a limit to how much you lay it on, as long as the women are responding well.... that is the only thing you should worry about.
 

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Don't over use C&F !!

it's great in the attraction phase; but if you keep applying high level of C&F during connection/comfort phase, it will backfire.
 

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I have every DYD product and I'd say that 'Meeting Women in Bars and Clubs' is the best series if you want to learn ****y comedy. Craig is awesome in that seminar.

For some reason I found the ****y comedy program to be more focused on inner game.
 

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Out of all of David D's programs, ****y Comedy is my least favourite one. It just seems to be an extension of the Advanced Series; in the end I didn't feel like I completely understood ****y and Funny. For instance, while the talk with Sean on this product was fucking great for inner game, it had little to do with C+F.

Advanced Series, Mastery Series, Bars and Clubs. All are great, great stuff.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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