"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dating without a ride

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marines_hooorah

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Hey Guys,
I need help (yeat again) with dating. My main problem right now is getting someone to drive me places. My parents dont like to stay up late and I have no older brothers/sisters. Any ideas would be great. Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gomorg

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How old are you? Get your license and save up for a car. You can always call a cab.
 
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marines_hooorah

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Gomorg said:
How old are you? Get your license and save up for a car. You can always call a cab.
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Im fifteen so I cant get a liscense. Also, I live in the suburbs so no cabs.
 
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Hmmm kind of a tough situation but I wouldn't worry to much you're only fifteen so you don't really need to be taking the girl to the ritz-carlton across town. Just find fun things to do that are nearby. Go to her place, go to your place, walk to the park, go on bike rides. Keep it simple.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tekniq

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Ultrafine said:
OP YOU ARE a PVSSY.
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How does that make sense, or is in anyway relevant?

I know how you feel, because i was and at the same time sort of am in your situation, because i dont have my own car.

You have to show the girl that things can be just as fun without a car. Then again i live in NYC, a public transportation mecca so it isnt that hard to get where you want to go. Though always make it apparent that you are having more fun walking/taking the train/taking the bus than you would have just sitting in the car.

Think of it positively, using public transportation you more time to continue with the date, with a car it is more just reaching point a and point b, and disregarding the journey in between.
 
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Ultrafine said:
OP YOU ARE a PVSSY.
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You've been posting that same useless comment in all your posts. Shut up.
A moderator should really ban this guy.
 
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Tekniq

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oh and i forgot to add, get the girl to drive, i have been doing that for a while lol
 
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Bryce556

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I bike to alot of place or girls houses cause i cant drive until october. I get my parents to drop me off when i can but otherwise i get rides from friends or bike 2-11km to places then back, I take my bike with me on public transportation too. good workout as a bonous.
 
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