"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dating & social proof

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Lets get right to the story: I'm in a fraternity. Went out drinking with my buddies. Met up with a hot sorority at a bar. Number closed a HB i had met before at a party fairly easily after a bit of kino even though I was there for maybe 30 min tops. Yay me! This might sound a bit like bragging but I was having a few bad nights in a row. :p.

Anyways, my question is this: This girl is maybe a 7 in my book. I don't really wanna spend much money or time on her but will the social proof make the other girls in her sorority more attracted to me from her dating me? If so, then that would be a pretty good opportunity to up my value.

just wondering if its worth it if I'm only mildly interested in the girl..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dude, when I was married, I got hit on by some of the hottest women, and it was constant. It was even more so when I was out with my wife. The girls would say I was so hot, dance with me, and come talk to me.

One reason for this was because I had a woman which made me more interesting, but the other thing that it did was took away all my desperation. My whole demeanor towards women was totally different than when I was single. I wasn't looking for anything from women, and the fact that I was married was and instant challenge.
 
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