"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dating my older boss

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Looking for a bit of advice here, just any advice in general really...

This is a new experience for me. I've dated plenty of women close to my age, and younger, one older I think... at 24. However this Friday I have set up a date with my boss at work.. who's 28. (I'm 21)

We get along fine. Very playful and joking... the sexual tension was strong for a while before we kind of blundered into agreeing into a date. With the whole co-worker thing the situation was very.. light footed for a while.

Anyways, now it's going down and I'm not sure what to expect... In my experience women stay the same from 18-30+, except they want more out of you. That's kind of something affecting my confidence, since I feel a woman in the 28 y/o range would be looking for a man with a adult-type job and not a college student with a **** job. But I feel that's all a mental block/insecurity of mine because... she agreed and wanted to go out after all.

Anyways, anyone have experience with such a situation? I could care less if it's bad for my job security. Not a concern...

More looking for people with experience/tips with dating a slightly older woman. Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Huffman

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You're a college student and she's an older boss who prolly knows what she wants. If she's into you then she's NOT looking for an "adult-type" man, but for a college student.
Trust your gut, if you feel the attraction then keep doing what you do.

Not going to comment on dating your boss though, I'm sure the other posters will.
 
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Well you said you couldn't care less about what it does for your job security, so there's your answer right there. If it's "just a job" as opposed to an adult-type job after college then I say definitely go for it, especially if she's really attractive.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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General game applies. Try a bit more amused mastery than usual. I don't think dating them is much different. They tend to be better conversationalists. Just be confident and have fun. If there's already chemistry then you're doing something right.
 
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