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Dating Idea: Classical Concert

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Hey Guys,

What do you think about classical concert as a dating idea? I don't know exactly what kind of music the girl likes (don't think she listens to classical music), but I suppose she has a decent music taste.

What do you think?

Thanks!:)
 

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It's something I do on occasion as I really enjoy it. As long as the girl has a little depth it goes well.

My advice, assuming the girl is worth it, make it a fancy, romantic evening. Dress up, nice dinner, walk around the city, etc...
 

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dude, you are from bulgria. why are you even on here? the advice on this board will help you in absolutely no way. i should know. i just came back from kharkiv in ukraine. bulgarian and ukrainian girls are pretty much alike. as a dutch guy told me while at the airport in kiev..."these girls are f****** awesome!". once i landed in holland to switch planes i had to agree with him. western europe is dead as far as i am concerned.

hell yeah with your question. girls of all ages seem to have an appreciation for culture. the nice thing about kharkiv is that so many of the girls dress to kill 24/7. they could go to the concert when they go pick up milk for their mothers. so amazing to see such beauty and style in line getting water or milk. this is something that is missing in the west. plus they wear makeup all the time. nice bright red lipstick. they do sweet stuff with their hair as well. oh yeah, and the boots are amazing. the long gazelle like legs. the fact that middle aged women are out of the game. the amazingly good genetics. i can go on, but i am starting to get pissed at being away currently. good luck...

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Those long gazelle legs in some funk me boots make me go all :crazy:

Going to a classical concert might be a good idea for a later date or when you are in a relationship, definatly not for the very first date. Try taking her somewhere where you can interact with her. At a classical concert you are sitting there without saying a single word to eachother for a couple of hours except during the breaks that is. Classical concert + a dinner afterwards might be a good idea, but I personally wouldn't put on that kind of a show for a chick on the first date.
 
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