"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dating and living with your parents

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I actually pretty much live with my mom and brother, since my parents are divorced, but you get the idea. I guess I was kinda spoiled because my last gf had her own place and we could get close and watch movies and do whatever, but I'm realizing now how much I hate living at home. If I had a steady girlfriend, it wouldn't be a big deal to bring her over as everyone would probably already know her, but for dating sometimes I just really want to have some girl come over and chill with me, but I feel uncomfortable if theres people around. To give you guys some backround I'm 22 and am living at home because my college is pretty much 5 min. away and can't afford to move out. Would love some advice if possible, thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It sucks dude i'm in the exact same situation, and I put an hold on dating till i'm done with college.
 
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it's not that bad... the only thing you can't do is bring her home. there are plenty other things you two can do, other places you can chill at
 
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