I hung out with this extremely attractive girl from Iran outside of college and decided to ask her out on a date, I have been rusty on my picking up woman skills but have been really confident talking to her and getting us to hang out. This is going to be my first date after breaking up with my ex-girlfriend of 3 years a month and half prior.
Here is all of the good things:
She is smart, funny, gorgeous, and extremely interesting. She gives ALL of the signs of attraction from laughing about things I say that aren't funny, keeping conversation going when it dulls down, and looking away blushing when I look at her for too long. I don't believe she is mulsim like the majority of people in her country and she seems much less conservative then others I see from Iran. (She wears more exposing clothes and such) I have been doing a lot of Kino just to increase our physical comfort level. So I am not afraid to touch her.
Here's the problem, I find her TOO interesting. Almost fascinating. She is so exotic it really turns me on. She is a 10. Straight up. I have never dated a 10 before, but in my head I know I have to treat her like anyone else, normal. I need to make it seem like I am the prize, as that is the only way I will get respect. And I know that talking about HER life and HER culture will only make her think that she is the prize. The tricky part is she is an Eastern girl and not a Western girls so her morals and values aren't going to be exactly the same as over here. I decided I should think of her as a "challenge" to progress my inner self.
The reason why humans date is to find out all of this stuff, but I really think that I need to make a physical attraction first THEN the emotional attraction. I am just having a hard time being sexual (but I am being confident so not all is lost). Now that we are officially going on a "date" I should be able to pull off more sexuality since it is more expected.
Am I going about this the right way you guys? I tend to think I am, but I would like to hear other opinion. Please don't be afraid to comment!
By the way, my current goals with her are to have sexual contact with her while we are dating but before becoming exclusive, since I have never EVER tried doing sexual things with women before becoming the "boyfriend".
Here is all of the good things:
She is smart, funny, gorgeous, and extremely interesting. She gives ALL of the signs of attraction from laughing about things I say that aren't funny, keeping conversation going when it dulls down, and looking away blushing when I look at her for too long. I don't believe she is mulsim like the majority of people in her country and she seems much less conservative then others I see from Iran. (She wears more exposing clothes and such) I have been doing a lot of Kino just to increase our physical comfort level. So I am not afraid to touch her.
Here's the problem, I find her TOO interesting. Almost fascinating. She is so exotic it really turns me on. She is a 10. Straight up. I have never dated a 10 before, but in my head I know I have to treat her like anyone else, normal. I need to make it seem like I am the prize, as that is the only way I will get respect. And I know that talking about HER life and HER culture will only make her think that she is the prize. The tricky part is she is an Eastern girl and not a Western girls so her morals and values aren't going to be exactly the same as over here. I decided I should think of her as a "challenge" to progress my inner self.
The reason why humans date is to find out all of this stuff, but I really think that I need to make a physical attraction first THEN the emotional attraction. I am just having a hard time being sexual (but I am being confident so not all is lost). Now that we are officially going on a "date" I should be able to pull off more sexuality since it is more expected.
Am I going about this the right way you guys? I tend to think I am, but I would like to hear other opinion. Please don't be afraid to comment!
By the way, my current goals with her are to have sexual contact with her while we are dating but before becoming exclusive, since I have never EVER tried doing sexual things with women before becoming the "boyfriend".