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Date with a younger girl tonight - Would like some advice

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So I met this really cute little blonde on Sunday at a friends house for an after death party for his grandfather. We talked a little bit, I got her number, called her yesterday and were supposed to hang out tonight. I'm 23 and she's 17, going to be 18 next week.

I've never taken out a girl this much younger than me and I was wondering where you guys think I should take her or if you have any advice on how to play it. I don't know her well at all so I'm not sure if I should hang out with her alone or have some people over my place in a chill setting and just hang out. I was thinkin I wanna just get her to my place alone to watch a movie, have a couple drinks and take it from there but I'm not sure.
 

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Well I left her a message about an hour and a half ago and she hasn't called back so it seeming like she's flaking on me. Who does this biatch think she is? I guess I'll give her a call next week and see what the deal is. Maybe shes nervous or some shyt cus of the age thing. I'm not givin up that easy though. I think persistance is key.
 
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Persistence is the key,but how much you use could be deadly to a relationship. There could be many reasons as to why she hasnt answer her phone, you never know. I know personally that the only phone number I know are my home and my cell phone. I count on my cell phone to store numbers,so if it is lost then I am lost. She could be very much intimidated by your age. If she flakes again next her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I said I would try callin' her again next week because she didn't return my phone call tonight. I don't think that classifies as stalking. I'm not gonna give up just because she didnt return one call. I'll give her one more chance to see what she'd be missing...And if that doesn't work I'll put a tap in her phone and follow her wherever she goes...:p
 
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Originally posted by Brando23
I said I would try callin' her again next week because she didn't return my phone call tonight. I don't think that classifies as stalking. I'm not gonna give up just because she didnt return one call. I'll give her one more chance to see what she'd be missing...And if that doesn't work I'll put a tap in her phone and follow her wherever she goes...:p
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I beleive he said stalking because of what I said "persistence is the key". I think he just wanted to make sure no one is too persistent to the point of stalking.
 
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There's such an insane maturity gap between the ages of 18 and 21 .. good luck.
 
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