"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Date With 19 Year Old A Bit Nervous

SuSHI

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BigJimbo said:
I resent that! You pick on Ukraine you pick on me :box:

http://www.ronredburn.com/tour/phot...-05-2009/images/Ukraine-Women-Odessa-0055.jpg
See, in Ukraine you don't need to get rid of your facial hair :cheer:

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Dude is cleaning up. Wow, and to read the posts on this forum. You guys all suck :down:

You boys think about those dudes when you get turned down by a chubby with a few kids and a bad attitude. Life sucks in America. Sorry, it just really does.

Neither of those guys are you? How do you know any of those girls were there to f*ck that guy, and weren't escorts. Bud, if it's not you in the pic, why even bother?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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taiyuu_otoko

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SuSHI said:
Neither of those guys are you? How do you know any of those girls were there to f*ck that guy, and weren't escorts. Bud, if it's not you in the pic, why even bother?

All those girls in the pic had nametags on. It was one of those go to russian for a wife shopping trips.
 

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taiyuu_otoko said:
All those girls in the pic had nametags on. It was one of those go to russian for a wife shopping trips.

I don't want to ruin his fantasy, but it is a total myth that women will just love an old fart because he is from US and "insert excuse here" I know those women, the reason they are around is exactly what you think it is. And yes they would rather (and do) bang guys their age on a side.
 

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I don't know what happen to BigJimbo but he is one bitter dude and is as anti-American as to being what I call a terrorist poster and should be banned.

Ignore him as he has nothing to offer the forum.


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What is it you relate to? All his post say all americans are stupid so you agree with that? His post say all americans like fat women I don't but do you agree with that?

You can't befriend the dude and it's a dead end road.

I might agree with a few opinions of his but to come on a forum and generalize like a hurt child is non-sense and his post help no one on the forum he contributes hate nothing more a classic hatemonger he needs to be banned.

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San Jose California said:
^haha he's so right though. I have a Ukrainian friend so I can relate.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Oh OK.

Thanks for making that clear.

Peace brother.

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San Jose California said:
^I mean I have a Ukranien friend who's almost 25 and can get any hot 18 year old he wants (same thing will probably be happening when he's 30) while all these 18-20 year olds cannot get a fat girl their age. That's what I mean.
 
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