"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dark humor or genuine insult?

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Note, I do resemble an African american.
How would you respond?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't find it to be neither dark humor nor an insult. It's a shoot down and a sh1t test. Respond with how come you don't have children? But if she asking you this sh1t you went the wrong route anyway, besides the fact that you shouldn't be chatting sh1t to girls online. She is chatting with you, and 4 other dudes at the same time. You trying to be kdj and masturbate to porn?
 

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Ok it's a sh1t test, but what do you mean by wrong route. There was no conversation before this. She messaged me out of the blue. I never even noticed her until she messaged me.
What does kdj mean?
 

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Remain unfazed.

Ignore that question and keep on talking of other topics.

However if she brings it up again then she's being rude and a spoiled little brat - at that point I'd trust you know what to do.
 
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