"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dark cirlces under eyes at night

shock

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i see people who get the dark circles under thier eyes from lack of sleep, or a big night drinking...etc. But what about at night?? Reason i ask is I was at a party the other night, having an awesome time. Today I look the pics, and you you can just see the bags under my eyes.. I mean I looked drunk and like ****. haha i was't drunk, tad buzzed but that's it. You guys get this? What has helped you??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bonhomme

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Food allergies are another possibility.
 
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