"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dancing at Grad Nite

Locster

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I had an weird experience yesterday at grad night. When I was on the dance floor I asked 3 different girls to dance (grind) but I was rejected every time. After that I started just dancing alone slowly moving toward girls I wanted to grind with and this time I actually manage to grind with a girl without asking :confused:

So my question is when grinding is it better to ask or just take action?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anomalous

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WTF never ask! YOUR THE MAN! YOU OWN THAT *****! Just go up to her grab her hips and start moving!

Didn't the first hand experience answer your question?
 

Rocko

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actually, in DD CDs he has an interview with a girl and she says its creepy when i guy randomly starts dry humping her on the dance floor, i always ask girls who aren't dancing if they would like to dance, or i cut in with girls i know and dance with them. BTW, i also went last night and found it a hard time dancing (disneyland right?).
 

Locster

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Rocko said:
actually, in DD CDs he has an interview with a girl and she says its creepy when i guy randomly starts dry humping her on the dance floor, i always ask girls who aren't dancing if they would like to dance, or i cut in with girls i know and dance with them. BTW, i also went last night and found it a hard time dancing (disneyland right?).
did you find many girls to dance with last night
 
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