"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lets say im grinding with a chick and she starts grabbing my ****, like putting her hands in my pants in the middle of the whole thing and putting my hands on her crotch. do i just say " lets go outside" , my friend told me to just say " hands off maybe later" or turn her around and make out
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mcpwn said:
lets say im grinding with a chick and she starts grabbing my ****, like putting her hands in my pants in the middle of the whole thing and putting my hands on her crotch. do i just say " lets go outside" , my friend told me to just say " hands off maybe later" or turn her around and make out

In my experience, depending on the situation, if the chick is drunk then she is just teasing or "caught up in the moment". What your buddy said is on point, I have a gentleman mentality unless we in the V.I.P. I ain't trying to let nobody see my business, if u trying to go out side for a quickie in the parking lot, why not, but be careful lot of std's floating out there dawg
 

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mcpwn said:
lets say im grinding with a chick and she starts grabbing my ****, like putting her hands in my pants in the middle of the whole thing and putting my hands on her crotch. do i just say " lets go outside" , my friend told me to just say " hands off maybe later" or turn her around and make out
To be honest, for me there are only two factors that will dictate my behaviour in this situation.

1) How hot she is
2) How drunk i am

Regards,
 
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