"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dance Floor Kino

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I rarely go to clubs these days, but went out with some friends (double date) this weekend.

I had a really good time, and was happily distracted by dozens of girls making their way to the dance floor.

When my friends were taking breaks grabbing drinks or in the bathroom, I would chill on the edge of the dance floor, checking out the scene.

Literally a dozen or more girls would rub their way by, grabbing my waist as they made their way past, rubbing their crotches and breasts against me.

It could just be my ego telling me this, or maybe these girls are all getting some free groping action on the dance floor.

What's your experience, mates? If I weren't with my date, I would've grabbed some of these girls and made them 'pay a fine!'
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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They wanted you to dance with them. But you stood there. Go up and grab and ask her to dance. Rejection is a part of the game. Don't be afraid. Go dance with her.
 
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At first, I thought it was just chicks making their way to the dance floor. It was very crowded. Then again, so many chicks did this, maybe they did want me to take the next step.

I'll find out next time I'm out!
 
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Girls are generally more touchy/feely in clubs. They spend hours drinking and dancing with people that touching someone almost becomes like second nature. Honestly, I wouldn't put much stock in it unless there were some additional indicators.

But even still, it gives you a perfect opportunity to open. So I guess it isn't a complete tease.
 
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Well, yes, I definitely think the dance floor is a much more acceptable place for girls to get touchy feely with a guy than anywhere else!

I'm starting to think I'll frequent the clubs more often!

The thing is EVERY girl passing by did this, so either every girl is not interested, or every girl IS interested. It must be the latter!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dance floor KINO?? For real? This is what were talking about? A few girls touched you and you decide to make a thread about it??!

Ok, realize that girls will touch you in a club. It's a club. Last night, I walked into an effin club and a girl slapped my a** as soon as my feet hit the dance floor. Not that serious. This is what the club is for.

You need to take action. I woulda danced with that girl if I didn't just get in the club. Besides, I knew there was more trouble out there.

Now get in there next month, dance with the first girl that "touches" you, then you can make a thread.
 
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