Damnit

[brucevangeorge]

Okay, here's the thing:

I just came to University and theres this girl I knew in a couple of my classes during high school. I met her when I switched classes (I had a conflict) and saw her standing outside the room waiting for class. I chatted a bit, how do you find university?, what residence you in... how do you like it? etc. She asked the questions actually. All pleasant and smiling. The next day I see her in class again and she turns around and gives me a smile. Now here's where it turns kinda weird:

As I leave class, there's two ways I can leave. The way I came into the building or a shorter way out. Anyway I see that she is heading the shorter way, so I follow along since I dont really know the building until we exit the building. Im basically 2-3 metres behind her. I dont say a word. (maybe she thought I was following her?)

The next day I see her in class. Class finished early and I'm just scoping around for her since Id like to talk to her. I find that she is sitting in the front row. Then the chick beside her turns around and just stares at me. Im thinking . "Thats weird. wtf is up with her?" They both talk for a bit, then the ***** does it again. They both leave together and bam there goes my chance.

I pass her today as Im walking out of the gym. I look at her and dont even get any eye contact. Doesnt even say hi. ( I dont say anything either) She's pulling off one of those walking forward but facing away from you kind of things.

Am I overanalyzing this? Should I just drop it and avoid her or is there some way I can fix this?

I really dont care if I can fix it or not but it is kind of awkward when I see her. Especially considering we have class together.

 

[Anomalous]

Forget her, SHE THINKS YOUR A STOCKER.

As for her friend just do what she does to you. If your in the hall just turn around and give that ***** the same look she gave you.

 

[brucevangeorge]

Goddamnit. Thats exaclty what Im thinking. Shes never been really that popuar in highschool. Mostly a bookworm. Probly had alot of free time to completely blow this out of proportion.

This SUCKS.

Oh well. Thanks for the advice on the friend thing. That bich.

Kinda weird that she would get spooked so easily. Didnt even do anything.

 

[B-Lemond]

Originally posted by whyshy
Forget her, SHE THINKS YOUR A STOCKER.

As for her friend just do what she does to you. If your in the hall just turn around and give that ***** the same look she gave you.

"stalker"

 

[Tazman]

I'm actually of the opinion that she likes you and she's becoming shy. The best thing to do is act like you don't notice and talk to her. If she acts like she doesn't want to be bothered than you can just ignore her and move on.

It's also very possible that her "friend" didn't approve of you and that's why she ignored you afterwards. Either way, you don't want to look like you're affected by this, continue to behave in the same friendly way unless she does something rude to you. You can just say "hello" when you pass her, nothing more.

 

[brucevangeorge]

Let me make this clear. I havent been in that class long nor have I talked to her after that ****. I dont know whether theyre friends ot not. Maybe classmates?

Not only that I doubt her "friend" would disaprove of me. Im not the best looking guy around, but Im damn fitter than 80% of the guys here. I would rate her a 3-4. 5 is really pushing it.

 

[Gonzalo]

This kinda happen to me back in the day, wish I knew back then how to handle it.

If the friend, or anybody for that matters, is basically STARING at you, don't ignore them, say Hello, or Have we met?/Can I help you?, or whatever, then the dumb bytch will realize how childish she's acting and turn away.

Also if you are walking 2-3 meters right behind the girl in a hallway or there's no one else, just say "see you later Jennie" or whatever. Think about it, stalkers don't really announce their presence.

And if she gets weirded out by a shy guy after two encounters, then think if you want to hang out with one of those immature chicks anyways.


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[brucevangeorge]

Its University.

Theres no empty hallways until 4am at night. Even then, theres probly still the janitors.

 

[flexion_]

Why the heck did you follow her and not say anything? Don't you think that is a bit wierd?

 

[brucevangeorge]

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