"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Damnit Man!!!

BxPrince24

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I can't believe this.... I was so close... oh so close...


I had the girl I'm seeing over in my dorm again and we watched a movie. So after the movie was done I put on some music to set the mood. So I started kissing her and whatnot. I got her shirt off, start kissing, licking, sucking her chest and breasts. I get on top of her and continue, she's enjoying it. I start working my way dow to get her pants off then....

BOOM!!! My room mate comes walking in and ends the whole game. So she gets her clothes back on and asks me "officially" do you want to go out with me? so I waited for a while with a hmmmmm then said yea, why not.

So i'm walking her back to the trainstation and she tells me "wow, I didn't know you could dance like that" So I said how could you not know, one look at me should tell you how good of a package you're getting. She laughs, then says "It's usually girls who are that good with their tongue and they do it 'down there,' so I was surprised (laughs), It felt great."

What a night. it woulda went so much more further if it wasn't for my roommate walking in. Oh well, there'll be other times I guess.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by BxPrince24
I can't believe this.... I was so close... oh so close...


I had the girl I'm seeing over in my dorm again and we watched a movie. So after the movie was done I put on some music to set the mood. So I started kissing her and whatnot. I got her shirt off, start kissing, licking, sucking her chest and breasts. I get on top of her and continue, she's enjoying it. I start working my way dow to get her pants off then....

BOOM!!! My room mate comes walking in and ends the whole game. So she gets her clothes back on and asks me "officially" do you want to go out with me? so I waited for a while with a hmmmmm then said yea, why not.

So i'm walking her back to the trainstation and she tells me "wow, I didn't know you could dance like that" So I said how could you not know, one look at me should tell you how good of a package you're getting. She laughs, then says "It's usually girls who are that good with their tongue and they do it 'down there,' so I was surprised (laughs), It felt great."

What a night. it woulda went so much more further if it wasn't for my roommate walking in. Oh well, there'll be other times I guess.
sounds like things are progressing how you want them to.

congrats.
 

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Good work man :up:

Maybe you should look into setting up a signal system with your room-mate to stop **** like this happening again. I've got a writing pad hanging on my dorm room door and whenever I have a chick staying over, I put my initials on the left hand corner - my buds know to stay the **** away then.
 
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