"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Damn, was gonna ask a girl out tonite

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Ok here's the story.

Been talkin to a girl for about four months... most of those four months, I was pretty much ignoring her and dating other girls. She seemed interested in me so when I broke up with someone, I started seeing this girl. Its been about two weeks since I've really started talking to her... I got her IL really high and you know, its not a problem... I took her out last saturday. we had fun. she wanted more... I have no mistakes to report. She said she wanted sex a couple of times... she told me she loved me last night and she pressed me to say "i love u 2", so i did. I was planning on taking her out tonite... and guess what happened?

I talked to her friend. She said that the two of them where in a car at the intersection, turning left... and some ******* ran the red light and struck the passanger side (her side). She's unconscious in the hospital and pretty beat up. I havent talked to her, she's been unconscious.

Is that not f.cked? I think it is very f.cked. What should I do?? I told her friend that i wished her well and i'd talk to her as soon as i could. I feel sad... I really hope she's ok.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Uhm, how about finding out which hospital she's at and going there immediately?

Please tell me you've already planned this. Please...
 
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Damn, dude....thats rough.
Best of luck to her.
 
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Originally posted by insidious
Uhm, how about finding out which hospital she's at and going there immediately?

Please tell me you've already planned this. Please...
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visiting hours are done for tonight

im gonna see what i can do tommorow
 
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Definitely go tomorrow. Unless she's in ICU or something, you should be a little funny... If it were me, I'd bring her a bottle of gatorade and a can of Campbell's chicken noodle soup. ;) Tell her you hope she gets better soon, and that your next dinner together is going to be your treat (regardless of if you've been paying for them before this...)

Also, be glad she isn't dead. A guy I used to work with @ Abercrombie was killed last night... he left a club to go across the street to a gas station for something and misjudged the distance between himself and a car as he was running across the street. Needless to say, when it's flesh against car, car always wins...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wow that's rotten luck if I've ever seen it. You should definately spend some time with her at the hospital, It'll mean a lot to her and keep her spirits high.
 
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Sorry to hear your misfortune. All the best with her recovery.
 
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