"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dammit, I think I got the "are we exclusive" question

Die Hard

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Svck my d!ck... Respect doesn't come easy, it needs to be earned. Most bytches only earn to eat my sh!t... And the woman who gave birth to me, is the biggest cvnt I've ever known in my life.

Your turn... :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Desdinova

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Lilac said:
Wow this site is an eye opener. The men on this thread really let the side down for men. Why is honesty not an option. Maybe one day you'll meet a woman you do want to be with long term. With any luck she will just see you as a f**k - and, with the attitude you have towards women - no doubt a bad f**k at that. Lads grow a pair, be men and have a bit more respect for women. One of them gave birth to you after all.
Why did you bump this old-a55 thread? I ditched that woman 9 months ago after she wanted to talk marriage, kids, and moving in.

And I'm with Die Hard. My mother's a cvnt too.
 

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Going by experience, you will definitely know when you find a girl you want to be exclusive with. My current girlfriend, I knew after the 1st date. I didn't go exclusive right away but within a month I had no interest in seeing any other women.

You should be honest with her. A lot of women have gotten emotionally attached to me. They deserve you to be honest about your intentions and I always am.

There was one that was attractive and a great lay. She knew the deal and when I met the aforementioned current girlfriend, did not take it well at all when I cut her off! I was clear on the deal, she still wanted in my pants, and was obviously still hurt. Sometimes you just can't win - plates will get hurt but I have a clean conscience.
 
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