Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Read along my brothers. Depending on your level, this might solve a pretty major sticking point in your game.
I read most of my previous posts, and most of them had this context:
1. Piercing eye contact
2. Dominate the situation
3. Get into her face
4. Grab her
5. Escalate hard
6. WIN
and this is pretty much how i do it. Works for me perfectly. But during the debrief with one of my friends something CLICKED. I realized why it works for me and why it doesn't work for you.
This very simple process has a pretty complicated background.
Lets assume that you are doing all of the above steps correctly.
You establish good eye contact with the girl, you step right to her face, open her and proceed to caveman her hot little bod. But there is one factor that will fvck up totally your initial approach. That thing strikes and .. Its game over.
What the hell is that ?
It is.... HER ROLE IN HER GROUP.
In every "SET", certain girl has a certain role there. One of them is the leader, the other is the blind follower(sheep), the other is the trash talker, the other is the motivator etc etc. Many roles. Many combination.
But there are always the key role. The Opinion-Former of the group. This is usually the LEADER. Every thing this girl does, is automatically considered cool and is approved by her pack.
So the typical scenario where you fail is this :
You go in, you grab the wrong girl (the follower, the trash talker, - all the lower-than-leader position b1tches of the group). The leader gives her the eye contact, something like pressure to stop every interaction with you. And its game over. Even though you are going in perfectly, this factor alone will screw your chances up.
But on the other hand, if you step to the leader, opinion-former of the group, create a magical moment with her*(read below), she will not look first for the approval of her friends but will fall right to your trap.
So basically, the point of this post is to screen before approaching, and approach the right girl. Just knowing this will give you better opening ratio.
* Magical moment- my version:
Walking slowly toward her, while looking deep into your eyes with a smile on your face. Get into her space, and introduce yourself and wait for her to introduce herself while you hold her hand. When she says her name, you kiss her hand and "SPIN and IN" her. This is going to create a magical moment where the whole world evolves around you, and nothing else exists but you two. Remember that you have to feel it before you do it. Its a genuine moment.
I read most of my previous posts, and most of them had this context:
1. Piercing eye contact
2. Dominate the situation
3. Get into her face
4. Grab her
5. Escalate hard
6. WIN
and this is pretty much how i do it. Works for me perfectly. But during the debrief with one of my friends something CLICKED. I realized why it works for me and why it doesn't work for you.
This very simple process has a pretty complicated background.
Lets assume that you are doing all of the above steps correctly.
You establish good eye contact with the girl, you step right to her face, open her and proceed to caveman her hot little bod. But there is one factor that will fvck up totally your initial approach. That thing strikes and .. Its game over.
What the hell is that ?
It is.... HER ROLE IN HER GROUP.
In every "SET", certain girl has a certain role there. One of them is the leader, the other is the blind follower(sheep), the other is the trash talker, the other is the motivator etc etc. Many roles. Many combination.
But there are always the key role. The Opinion-Former of the group. This is usually the LEADER. Every thing this girl does, is automatically considered cool and is approved by her pack.
So the typical scenario where you fail is this :
You go in, you grab the wrong girl (the follower, the trash talker, - all the lower-than-leader position b1tches of the group). The leader gives her the eye contact, something like pressure to stop every interaction with you. And its game over. Even though you are going in perfectly, this factor alone will screw your chances up.
But on the other hand, if you step to the leader, opinion-former of the group, create a magical moment with her*(read below), she will not look first for the approval of her friends but will fall right to your trap.
So basically, the point of this post is to screen before approaching, and approach the right girl. Just knowing this will give you better opening ratio.
* Magical moment- my version:
Walking slowly toward her, while looking deep into your eyes with a smile on your face. Get into her space, and introduce yourself and wait for her to introduce herself while you hold her hand. When she says her name, you kiss her hand and "SPIN and IN" her. This is going to create a magical moment where the whole world evolves around you, and nothing else exists but you two. Remember that you have to feel it before you do it. Its a genuine moment.