"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Current sticking point: suggestions?

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Very relevant and awesome thread. Squirrels, amazing advice.

I have met these same barriers, and I see clearly from some comments in this thread my mistakes and areas of improvement.

One quote specifically stands out above all others:
wait_out said:
It's not just the kiss itself. You're selling an entire experience, from the context of the date, to how you might relate to each other, to your confidence with her. The setup is everything. The kiss and anything after is just a reward.
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Sell the experience.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dear Hansol,
Just relax,you both sound rather shy,just lie back and enjoy the date.Maybe go to the Movies,hold her hand,believe me it will just happen.
 
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