"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cunnilingus leads to Herpes/STDs?

Bowser

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Can eating a girl's vag*nal area lead to possible contracting of Herpes and other STDs? If yes, what can a man do to give his girlfriend an orgasm without jeopardizing his own health? Your expert opinions please. Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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From what I've heard, the ability of HIV to infect through oral, as long as there aren't any cuts in the mouth, is slim.

Herpes is another story entirely. :eek:

You could break out the "dental dam," but I'd feel weird about using one of those.

It's pretty much a case of, "know your lover," and beyond that, take a chance.
 

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Yup -

(From 'http://www.herpes.com" - Heh, who'd have thought?)

Herpes is spread by direct skin to skin contact. Unlike a flu virus that you can get through the air, herpes spreads by direct contact, that is, directly from the site of infection to the site of contact. For example, if you have a cold sore and kiss someone, you can transfer the virus to their mouth. Similarly, if you have active genital herpes and have vaginal or anal intercourse, you can give your partner genital herpes. Finally, if you have a cold sore and put your mouth on your partners genitals (oral sex), you can give your partner genital herpes
General consensus seems to be that putting some food-covering wrap over her will prevent any risk from oral intercourse (that'd be a little too odd for me, though), although when no sores are present (and like hell I'd go anywhere near it if there were any sores down there - yuck!) the risks of transmission are minimised.

Seeing as though the risks are so minimal when there are no sores present, if it looks tasty enough you might as well take the risk in this case.
 

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Health and Fitness...
 

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Originally posted by stinkyape
Yup -



Seeing as though the risks are so minimal when there are no sores present, if it looks tasty enough you might as well take the risk in this case.

you do know that not everyone has a sore sticking out blinking with a sign that says " i am a herpe" dont you?
most people catch it for someone who just caught it and hasnt had a break out yet.
i am not telling you to live in a bubble . i just want to enlighten you on the fact that there are risks each time you sleep with someone new. herpes is a risk that you cant control unless you get extreme. like getting out the reyonaldas wrap . when you get extreme you tend to make others think you are crazy instead of being health consious.
any time you have sex you rub or break off skin layers off each person. herpes is a virus of the skin and is transmitted thru the breaks in skin. you cant see breaks in skin because they are so tiny and you cant see the virus.

i do not know alot about the aids virus however i am sure that you can catch it by going down on a girl. i am pretty sure you catch it thru bodily fluids and secretions and while you are down there guess what you are licking? yep those are the bodily fluids.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There's 0 chance unless she has the desease already, obviously. So if this is your GIRLFRIEND who you're in a monogimous relationship with and not some ONS, get tested for STDs with her. If you're both clean and fathful, you'll have nothing to worry about.
 

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It is very difficult to catch Genital Herpes Orally. The Simplex 2 doesn't take to the mouth well, and Simplex 1 doesn't take to your junk. It is just as possible to catch HIV from cunni as it is from unprotected sex.

But hell, you gotta live.
 

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You could always try doing what I do: Don't date *****s. Get a virgin, hell, they're practically disease free.
 
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