"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Credit tips?

e-lie

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Any tips for building credits like alot of people I was a victim of identity theft help if u know of any suggestion.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bible_Belt

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For credit cards, use them to rack up a balance for things you would buy anyway and at the same time save the cash, and then carry the balance for a month or two. Then pay it off with the money you saved and when it is near zero, ask for a higher limit. Then repeat the process with larger sums. A month or two of interest is worth the help to your credit.

Lenders report when you are 30, 60, and 90 days overdue. 29 days late does not get reported, but 31 will, no matter how much you complain. Phone and utility bills don't impact your credit until you have a very overdue balance that is sent to collections.

Stay away from department store credit cards, unless it says Visa or Mastercard on it. They tend to hurt more than help.
 

Interceptor

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Open up an account, bank or department store. But something cheap, pay it off, and then keep the card open.
Always pay above the minimum amount due.
And be really use good judgement and discretion when you buy big ticket items. Buy it, and pay it off.
 

Skel

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More important is to not ruin your credit. Its pretty hard to build up good credit after it has gone bad. Pay your stuff on time.
 
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