"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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creating value?

ink_wizard

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Just a question....
Whats the best way to create value for yourself and great social power?

I mean i do go out and i do have friends yes but it seems that chicks seem to dig those who are overly popular and those who have a lot of value, when most of these people arent even that special, people just hype them.

Your thoughts?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gamestarr

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First off, you should start feeling powerful by being yourself. Social status is important if your a celebrity or in high school.
 

dj_china

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I discovered this recently:

invite multiple social circles out and then introduce them to each other. you know everybody best there, so you are naturally the leader. and you get to tell everybody "my friends are coming" "this friend got a reservation at that club" "friend hosting afterparty later"

it makes you the ****ing man.
 
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