"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Crazy girl?

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So i texted this girl last night. I forgot i had her on my contact list and i was suppose to text her. I am in college. She lives in the dorm my best friend lives in

So my text:

Me: What are you up to tonight?
HB: Who is this?
Me: You forgot who this is this? you lost points for that
HB: Who is this? (After seeing this, she didnt seem playful at all or receptive to my humour, so i decided to play it chill)
Me: (Told her who it was)

The next day

Random text from her

HB: Who the **** do you think you are?
(I was surprised. what the heck?)
Me: Superman
HB: **** you
Me: No thanks =]

My friend texts me and asks me what i texted her last night. He said she was going crazy.

I told my friend to tell her "Its okay I still like you"
He tells me she hates me
I say "It'll be okay after i take out her out for some drinks"
He relays the message and tells me she hates me cause im ****y
:woo:

Quite a wild one.

Should i be worried about this girl coming with a knife?
I just played it cool the whole time, not really my thing to panic or worry too much, but i havent dealt with such a girl in a long time

Not sure if i want to never text her again or text her with something outrageous.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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chiyeung said:
He relays the message and tells me she hates me cause im ****y
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I think you hit the jackpot there by unleashing your inner "jerk". Remember, the opposite of love isnt hatred but indifference so keep it up.
 
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Text her again:
"I know you have a crush on me, but I cant make up my mind if I want to be charitable enough to have drinks with you"
 
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I have no interest in this girl ( im in a LTR)

But for some reason, the moment i read her text, my game and my jerk attitude just activated. I couldn't think of any other responses. I don't want to act like i am gaming her.

The problem is that I go to her dorm building to hang out with my other friends. She is always around. I am wondering how awkward it is going to be.

Usually I don't give a EFF about other girls around, even when they have a problem with me. It is just I havent experienced this in a while and it was like shellshock. Girls are emotional and attention seeking wrecks.
 
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It has escalated. SHE IS NOW TELLING EVERYONE ABOUT OUR FIGHT.

YET, we had no fight!

Fortunately, I know she simply wants something from me. which i will not give until she is naked
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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