"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Crazed Myspace Woman OR Just Another Crazy Woman
- Thread starter Francisco d'Anconia
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Christ. Aren't they all nuttier than a ten pound Christmas fruitcake in one form or another?
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/09/14/AR2006091400655.html
With a forehead like that, you gotta protect your assetts.
Reason #498281 why myspace is horrible
With a forehead like that, you gotta protect your assetts.
Reason #498281 why myspace is horrible
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Forehead??!!! That's at least fvcking five-head!!! I wonder if she used her original lineup photo for her Myspace page?Vincent said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
That article is so representative of how Mesa, Arizona is. I hate that goddamn wanna-be city.