Coversation on MSN...

[BannedGod]

Lets say... I talk to a girl that Im going to date later on by MSN quite often during the week prior to the date... can this really be bad? Should I try to reduce my MSN (not only weith this girl, but every girls from now on)

Im guessing it cant be that good since it slightly kills the anticipation that she could feel waiting for the date, and Im also guessing the principle of "talking is for AFC guys" apply over MSN? Anyways what is you guys opinion on this?

 

[wjh]

Lets say... I talk to a girl that Im going to date later on by MSN quite often during the week prior to the date... can this really be bad? Should I try to reduce my MSN (not only weith this girl, but every girls from now on)

Im guessing it cant be that good since it slightly kills the anticipation that she could feel waiting for the date, and Im also guessing the principle of "talking is for AFC guys" apply over MSN? Anyways what is you guys opinion on this?

Not enough details to really make a call BUT, I would stay away from MSN/AIM as much as possible. You shouldn't be so available to women you're first dating. Mystery is attractive to women. Having a life outside of your computer is attractive to women.

 

[Effington]

Yeah, I generally stay away from messenger programs, for a lot of reasons. Do you really want a signal popping on that says you're around your computer? Being always available is a bad thing. Also, anything you want to talk about goes by much faster on the phone than typing. Also, there are weird moments when people go away from the computer and you never know why. And emotion/body language is completely gone, it's much harder to joke/be sarcastic over the computer.

The only thing I use messenger programs for is to keep in touch with old friends, or if I need to handle a lot of conversations at once--my department and I use it at work to communicate (and waste time on ocassion!)

 

[Cash37]

Lets say... I talk to a girl that Im going to date later on by MSN quite often during the week prior to the date... can this really be bad? Should I try to reduce my MSN (not only weith this girl, but every girls from now on)

Im guessing it cant be that good since it slightly kills the anticipation that she could feel waiting for the date, and Im also guessing the principle of "talking is for AFC guys" apply over MSN? Anyways what is you guys opinion on this?

I dont know the dynamics of your relationship with her, but do whatever is normal for you two. Dont over or under do it.

 

[Lust]

I actually block some of the girls I am working on, and only speak to them on MSN when I feel like, and when I have an idea where I can lead the conversation into a more interesting topic.