"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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could you still approach without a smile?

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Canadien

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So, this is been bugging me for some time, just today HB9 came and stood next to me, I tried to see any smile but didn't get any, so I was confused between this occurred feeling..

So is the smile a must before making any approach or can I approach someone sitting or standing next to me without clear eye contact?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if she;s close open her and see what happens. Fear makes us doubt, happens to me too.
 
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Fred Da Head

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Try and make eye contact if possible, but don't disengage just for that. Just say hi and if she doesn't smile and say hi or anything, then you can drop her like she's Pluto.
 
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