"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Could you get in trouble for using one sick day?

The LadyKiller

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For the past few years, I have been working at a large, corporate company. During this span, I have only used 1 personal day (last month for a family issue), but 0 sick days.

A few months ago, I submitted a floating holiday request to get a day off next week (we receive two per year). Our scheduling coordinator turned it down saying they would have trouble replacing me if I took the day off. Instead, he awarded the day to a new colleague that works similar hours as I (so much for company loyalty, right?). The coordinator then tried to pick a day for me that would be most convenient for him, which is against company policy (we can request floating holiday dates, scheduling will approve 1-2 of them). Recently, I have also been asked to fill in for co-workers who called out sick, and sometimes work a double shift because they didn't make an effort to find someone to help cover for me.

You know where this is going. If I were to use my first-ever sick day on the same day I had previously requested off, do you think there will be a problem? On one hand, it would be obvious that I'm not actually sick. On the other hand, I have never used a sick day while most of my co-workers have all used at least a couple during their time at the company. The only guilt I feel is for my co-workers, who I enjoy working with and would be a man down for a day. At the same time, scheduling has been jerking me around (to the point that even my co-workers notice) and management doesn't see my borderline tight turnaround times as a problem, even though it's fairly uncommon.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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