"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Could some answer this this for me!!??

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HEY!! okay. i have two QUICK questions. If you hung out with a girl and had a pretty good time playing beer pong together and just kind of hungout, Would it seem desprate or not right to message her the next day??


BUTTT!!.. get this, the girl that i played pong with, one of her bestfriends is totally all over me. except i dont want her. But i'm an ******* and i kind of use her to make her friend (the one im going for & played pong with) jealous. Theres GOT to be a way to go about this!! I i know i have what it takes to do what ever, but before i do anything stupid.. what would u guys suggest i do??


Thanks alott :up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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why would the other girl be jealous?

do whatever you feel is necessary...

if you feel like messaging her why not?
 
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hum i can see darknest in your future a 10 doller bill here for this one pls cause i see,i see she is happy with you which means she is thinking about you right now and you,you want to call her imediately after the first day men i think your **** its very big thats why.how big is your ****. anyway be patient and get back to us if everything is cool with ya.
 
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Are you friend with the one that you think likes you? If not, try to befriend her. I'm sure her friends, including the one you want, will know how good a man you are....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ok the girl that I LIKE.. her friend LIKES ME and keeps on wanting to hangout with me and flirts with me non stopp. haha but i dont want to hang out with her, i want to hang out with the girl that I LIKE. which is weird cus they r always together. And dont get me wrong, they are both very attractive ladies, except im only attracted to one of them, get what im sayn? I really dont know how to persue this. should i show more intrest in the girl I LIKE, or keep playin it cool with the girl that LIKES ME? ahhh fuuuckk!
 
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why are you playing games? if you like the girl, then go get her, dont be stupid and trying to make her jealous, all you're doing is pushing her away.
 
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you don't have the brain to understand they want to charge your battery together so i think so i will advice you to go for them.
 
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KingVM said:
HEY!! okay. i have two QUICK questions. If you hung out with a girl and had a pretty good time playing beer pong together and just kind of hungout, Would it seem desprate or not right to message her the next day??
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As you are with a woman and she is having a good time. She gets turned on. Kind of like having a bone on you. Next day the bone is gone.. Thus it is bad idea.. If you wait couple of days, by that time she'd want more of you..

However, best way is to escalate when she is horny.. Such as, why not envite her to your place to watch a movie? Always take it one step further with a woman, she wants that. She might say no, but you will be surprised how far you can take it before she says no.. Saying no, does not mean no, just means not now, later..



BUTTT!!.. get this, the girl that i played pong with, one of her bestfriends is totally all over me. except i dont want her. But i'm an ******* and i kind of use her to make her friend (the one im going for & played pong with) jealous. Theres GOT to be a way to go about this!! I i know i have what it takes to do what ever, but before i do anything stupid.. what would u guys suggest i do??
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Just be buddies with this chick.
 
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