"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cool places to unwind and relax after your shift is over

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After a hard day’s work of working smart or smartly bsing where do you guys like to go and hang out?


Me personally, I’ll grab a smoothie and go to the park to unwind. Sometimes I’ll go to Starbucks to flirt with the hot starbucks baristas to work on my social skills, sometimes I might even go watch a movie if the situation calls for it.



Where do you guys personally spend your time to relax?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Video games or netflix at home

The gym

Go to the movies

Go out for a nice meal

The park.

When single, I liked going to the Hot Snacks Place. Young hot girls in there most of the time. Got a few numbers back in the day.
 

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Drink beer, play with my dog, FaceTime my nephew and or sister, have friends come over to my house and watch something funny like the movie Blazing Saddles
 

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There is no time to relax here except if I make the time to do so.
 
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