"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I just ran across a different forum that has this cool feature where if you move your mouse over a certain abbreviation (ie. DJ, AFC), a little thingy comes up defining the term. With all the abbreviations we have, this would be really useful.

Here's an example: http://www.ld4all.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4882

Note how LD is underlined with dashes and scroll over it. It's really cool.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I like it. :)

I have always wondered what PUA stood for (though I know what it means).
 

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Originally posted by B9
I like it. :)

I have always wondered what PUA stood for (though I know what it means).
PUA=Pick Up Artist
 
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