"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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conversation last night

drmeathead

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i got talking to this girl online last night. (she lives 6 hours away). our families are friends, in fact her mom thinks i am hot. i have known of her since high school but she was freshman when i was a 19 year old senior.

anyway we talked for about 2 hours on IM. i kept it funny. she played the 20 questions routine asking me to ask her anything i wanted about her. i mixed in serious with random stuff to keep it light. i busted on her responses some. i did however let her ask me if i had ever been in love. that may have been the only neg thing i did.


she closed the conversation with 'i really feel comfortable talking to you'. obviosuly she likes me so i responded 'thats good'. we made plans to chat again and perhaps i am going to vist her at school next weekend. was thats good being to ellusive or right on the money to keep my challenge up?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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