Conversation Killers!!!

[pornstar88]

When im talking to women sometimes I dont have no damn sence. I make mistakes in the conversation that might extinguish the attraction that I have built up.

example: I was talking to this girl that I basically have in the palm of my hand. We were talkin my hair and the possibility that it can get curly and I made a refference to her coochie hairs being curly. ANd she immedieatly changed the subject. I dont know what I was thinking. I make mistakes like that all of the time. Not just sayin things about sex, but i just make big mistakes period in a conversation all of the time. Im exciting to talk too however my conversational cant make up for these kind of mistakes. I gotta have some kind of list saying the donts of a conversation.

can anyone help with that.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Do you realize you're doing this as you're doing it, right after you do it or sometime after that? In your example, if the girl ignored your comment rather than changing the subject, would you have continued expounding on her curly coochie hair?

 

[Cruise]

Stick to the topic. I tend to think, that if you can talk about a girl sooo bluntly about her sexual organs, she's really not worth the time to begin with, but that's just me.

Second, have a purpose behind your conversations. Randomly carrying on is cool, and women love spontaneity in a man, but at the same time, my goodness, have a conscience. Women want to have their dignity too, she was definitely interested in you, and she knew that you weren't scared of your sexuality (a big plus for them), but balance that out with some class.

 

[Flabbergasped?]

Haha, that happened to me once today.

I was chillin' in a room with my bro and two chicks (one fat and one HB8), and I'm talking to the HB8 about whether she would take it from behind. She's like, "no", and I insist that she's a freak who would. I throw in a c&f line, she looks mock-offended, and I say, "j/k".

I actually say the letters "j/k". The words "jay" and "kay" come out of my mouth. She sorta laughed and we had mindless banter about "l8r" and "g2g", but man did I sound nerdy lol.

 

[pornstar88]

Do you realize you're doing this as you're doing it, right after you do it or sometime after that? In your example, if the girl ignored your comment rather than changing the subject, would you have continued expounding on her curly coochie hair?

i messed up with countless chix with this sort of mindless banter lol.
Some times I really piss them off lol. I defineatly loss some attraction, lol i still got her though.

 

[afc_2_dj]

she looks mock-offended, and I say, "j/k".

Hehe!! How many times have I almost said "LOL" when someone says something funny!!! Guess we spend way too much time online!

 

[Raikojo17]

lol i've had this happen once. now the girl hardly talks to me anymore. it seems that she's interested. but remember, it doesnt matter as much as what you say, but how you say it. maybe it came out wrong or you said it creepy. if you had said the same thing differently but more funny, she wouldnt have minded. if she truely likes you she wont really care wat u say

doesnt mean you say any old thing (extremely vulgar can be offensive) but dont get hung up on what to say. perhaps tone done the coochie comments next time,lol, maybe she doesnt think her coochie hair is attractive.