"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Contact over summer?

ARrocket

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I moved out of my dorm today, and while waiting for the elevator to leave, I started talking to this girl...got her number. Seeing as I am going back home to another state for the summer, I won't be able to see her until September. Should I contact her at all over the summer? Or should I just give her a ring when I get back to school next semester? My intuition tells me to just wait, but what do you guys think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Joe Stud

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call her, tell her u will be in town in the next week or so. if she agrees to meet, it might be worth it to take the trip.

what was that old western gunfighters motto? oh yeah "have gun will travel".

your motto to her: have pen!s will travel :)
 
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