Conquering your inner game with respect to HB10s

[Alphathree]

A long time ago, I used to worship women of all stripes, be nice to them, and so on.

Thanks to countless websites and products and people, I don't anymore.

But there's still one final frontier. One part of my inner game that's so strong, so rooted in evolutionary psychology, that it's tough for me to beat.

See, I know that it's important to not let hot women "affect" me, my state, or my reality.

Most of the time, up to HB8.5/9, I'm capable of holding up my reality, and that's crucial to my game.

But every once in a while I'll see an HB10 who just knocks me out of the water before speaking a single word.

Today, in particular, I saw an HB10 in SHORT, TIGHT white shorts with perfectly tanned, perfectly toned, long silky legs and a pair of flip flops.

You guys know the feeling. I caught myself crushing on her right away. Anxiety. Fear. The need to **** her right there and then. All of those _AFC_ thoughts.

I realize this is a limiting belief on my part, but I'd say one out of every few thousand women I encounter is just so hot, so provocative, so untouchable, that my reality gets shaken by her presence.

It's hard to replicate this as a mere picture won't do it for me. It's her presence and her feminine energy that really shakes me.

I meet such an HB10 so rarely that I don't have time to practice my counter-magic.

I've tried things like on-the-spot David DeAngelo-style affirmations:
"I am enough"
"I like myself"
"That's nice." (WRT to her hotness... this is a favorite of mine)

These help a bit.

I realize the three second rule might be helpful here, but if I'm in a situation where I can't approach, then this doesn't apply.

UNDERSTAND that I'm not asking how to ATTRACT such an HB10. Im asking how to stop her from affecting my reality.

Because even if I'm gaming an HB9, a nearby HB10 who affects my reality is a problem.

I have a feeling the real answer to this question, as with everything else I've learned, is study, practice, and time.

That said, I'd be curious to hear the strategies of other males when they encounter such a bombshell. Again, not how you pick her up, but how you manage your state in the odd case when you feel it getting shaken.

 

[Stag]

Originally posted by Alphathree
A long time ago, I used to worship women of all stripes, be nice to them, and so on.

Thanks to countless websites and products and people, I don't anymore.

But there's still one final frontier. One part of my inner game that's so strong, so rooted in evolutionary psychology, that it's tough for me to beat.

See, I know that it's important to not let hot women "affect" me, my state, or my reality.

Most of the time, up to HB8.5/9, I'm capable of holding up my reality, and that's crucial to my game.

But every once in a while I'll see an HB10 who just knocks me out of the water before speaking a single word.

Today, in particular, I saw an HB10 in SHORT, TIGHT white shorts with perfectly tanned, perfectly toned, long silky legs and a pair of flip flops.

You guys know the feeling. I caught myself crushing on her right away. Anxiety. Fear. The need to **** her right there and then. All of those _AFC_ thoughts.

I realize this is a limiting belief on my part, but I'd say one out of every few thousand women I encounter is just so hot, so provocative, so untouchable, that my reality gets shaken by her presence.

It's hard to replicate this as a mere picture won't do it for me. It's her presence and her feminine energy that really shakes me.

I meet such an HB10 so rarely that I don't have time to practice my counter-magic.

I've tried things like on-the-spot David DeAngelo-style affirmations:
"I am enough"
"I like myself"
"That's nice." (WRT to her hotness... this is a favorite of mine)

These help a bit.

I realize the three second rule might be helpful here, but if I'm in a situation where I can't approach, then this doesn't apply.

UNDERSTAND that I'm not asking how to ATTRACT such an HB10. Im asking how to stop her from affecting my reality.

Because even if I'm gaming an HB9, a nearby HB10 who affects my reality is a problem.

I have a feeling the real answer to this question, as with everything else I've learned, is study, practice, and time.

That said, I'd be curious to hear the strategies of other males when they encounter such a bombshell. Again, not how you pick her up, but how you manage your state in the odd case when you feel it getting shaken.

Think about it this way. If she makes your heart beat faster then she is certainly worth of your approach. Just choose her and fight the excuses.

 

[Alphathree]

Good thought, except that I'd probably screw up the approach if my state is bad, and since the premise of this post is that my state is bad in this case... you get the point. =)

Besides, approaches are needy.

Women come to me. =)

(I'm not just saying this as an affirmation... my style is really very passive and it works well for me.)

 

[Stag]

Originally posted by Alphathree
Good thought, except that I'd probably screw up the approach if my state is bad, and since the premise of this post is that my state is bad in this case... you get the point. =)

Besides, approaches are needy.

Women come to me. =)

(I'm not just saying this as an affirmation... my style is really very passive and it works well for me.)

Then ur a ****ing loser. How do you expect to get the girl of your dreams if you arent even man enough to approach her. No hot girl will EVER approach a guy, only uglies. You have already lost.

You must understand that society's program in your head is telling you to feel nervous and sweaty and also not to approach girls (and that they will somehow magically approach you and suck your **** right there, yeah right), because you are not good enough.
Once you become aware of how wrong these excuses are, then you will be able to fight them and win the girl. But not with your lazy attitude.

 

[aftershock]

I find it too, but not very often. Theres only one HB10 in the last couple of years thats left me speechless. She was speaking and I was just silenced. This was at work by the way, she works in the same town as me and comes in sometimes.

Next time she came in, we were talking and then told me that she spends £25 a week on facials. So I told her "You do realise that you spend £1,300 a year on facials?" Now it wasn't the best line I've ever come up with, but ridiculing a HB10 by telling her that she wastes over two thousand dollars a year on cosmetic treatment is rather fun.

I have honestly no idea what affect it had on her, but at least its different! (Well actually I have ideas but I can't be arsed to post them - I'll claim ignorance instead!)

Funnily enough she fancies a guy I work with. I've told him to bang her but he won't and I can't work out why. I thought he was a DJ when I met him, but now he's in the AFC category. Loser.

Now, I know that it hasn't really answered your question, but I think that as long as it's not happening all the time you are alright. Allow yourself to be amazed at one HB10 every six months or something.

 

[Alphathree]

Originally posted by Stag
Then ur a ****ing loser. How do you expect to get the girl of your dreams if you arent even man enough to approach her. No hot girl will EVER approach a guy, only uglies. You have already lost.

You must understand that society's program in your head is telling you to feel nervous and sweaty and also not to approach girls (and that they will somehow magically approach you and suck your **** right there, yeah right), because you are not good enough.
Once you become aware of how wrong these excuses are, then you will be able to fight them and win the girl. But not with your lazy attitude.

It's hard to convey my game on an Internet forum, you know?

I do occasionally approach a compelling women, maybe once or twice a week. But actually, I'm a busy man, and I find that women are naturally drawn to me when I've got my game on.

I don't have problems with numbers. I don't even necessarily "want" the fictional HB10 described in my OP. I'm happy with my choices at the moment.

I just want to know how to have her not affect my state. What if I'm doing homework or eating lunch?

My attitude isn't lazy. I work on myself every day, and the more I work on myself, the more good things happen outside of me.

HOWEVER, thank you for responding, as you've indirectly given me an idea.

If I simply approach a few HB"11"s, that will probably stop them from affecting my state in the future, so I can concentrate on whatever the hell it was I was doing.

 

[bbestar]

I recently saw a few HB 9's today...

what helped out is

1. Pretend that the target will Never be attracted to you.
And To accept it at face value.

2. Pretend that there parents had an abortion and she never existed.

 

[Chrisman]

Good thought, except that I'd probably screw up the approach if my state is bad, and since the premise of this post is that my state is bad in this case... you get the point. =)

So what? Are you going to win her by not approaching? You're going to beat this problem by running away from it?

 

[Alphathree]

Originally posted by Chrisman
So what? Are you going to win her by not approaching? You're going to beat this problem by running away from it?

Everyone seems to be misunderstanding me here.

I'm NOT TRYING TO WIN THE HB10.

I've got plenty of HB8s and 9s running around in my social circle. I don't need extras at the moment.

Stop trying to stuff words in my mouth, heh.

I'm asking a very narrow and specific question about state control, and that's it.

 

[Alphathree]

Originally posted by bbestar
I recently saw a few HB 9's today...

what helped out is

1. Pretend that the target will Never be attracted to you.
And To accept it at face value.

2. Pretend that there parents had an abortion and she never existed.

Interesting... I'll have to come up with a way to put these into something NLP-ish that I can do on the spot.

 

[bbestar]

Originally posted by Stag
Then ur a ****ing loser. How do you expect to get the girl of your dreams if you arent even man enough to approach her. No hot girl will EVER approach a guy, only uglies. You have already lost.

You must understand that society's program in your head is telling you to feel nervous and sweaty and also not to approach girls (and that they will somehow magically approach you and suck your **** right there, yeah right), because you are not good enough.
Once you become aware of how wrong these excuses are, then you will be able to fight them and win the girl. But not with your lazy attitude.

You don't quite understand.. Son
pls don't call this person a ****ing losers here on this board... We all are trying to improve. And Calling him a ****ing loser is not goin to help my game, your game or anyone's game...

You are right about being lazy but

I think there is a more subtle motivation for not approaching hb 10's

What is in that sick mind of yours... YOU want HIT IT, YOU want to put it in, YOU want to get up on it, YOU want to tap that Fine, Tanned, Toned, Perfect, Juicy, Round, Tight ASS!!!!!!! ASS!!!!! ASS!!!!

. but you fear that u will lose your chance to hit it... to lose her... The fewer women in your life, the strong the urge. The Lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, the pride of life..

Desire creates an intense WANT of that woman. And where there’s an
intense WANT, there’s also an intense desire not to LOSE what you want!
Am I right?

When we LOSE something,
something is taken away from us, and we experience a type of emptiness
that is incredibly HARD to cope with.

Do some soul searching, and If your Life is empty, and a hb10 can't fill it... IT CAN be filled to overflowing..http://www.unshackled.org/

 

[h2o]

yeah, I know what you mean. There have been those few times that I see a super hot Hb that is way above the rest. I've only seen maybe one or two who look that hot.

As stupid and odd as it may sound, I actually feel more comfortable around prettier girls. It may be a stupid way to look at it, but when I know that I am out of her league...in fact, the hotter she is, I actually "game" a ton better.

The way I see it, I have no chance with the Hb10, so it beats trying. So, when I'm around her, I'm just myself, and I don't even give sh*t about it. To me, she's just like the ugly girl or Hb3-4 that I don't want. Both are girls, both have pvssies that I don't want to stick my d!ck in. The latter because they are too ugly, and the former, because it wouldn't be pleasant because they don't want me.

Someone else recently made a thread about trying to hook-up with a fine bartender. I responded by saying last few times I've been to this one club that I've been flirting with is almost an Hb10. And the reason she doesn't faze me is because from the start something in my mind went, "I can't get her, so why not just have fun with it..."

I know you're not talking about "picking up" but if you just accept she is truly out of your league, it won't bother you. It's just like comparing yourself to other guys...I just don't do that, some guys will pick-up 200x better than me, and it doesn't bother me one bit. Just have fun while knowing your limits. For example, occasionally I will see a guy "picking up" a girl...in my mind, instead of thinking 'jeez that could be me,' or feeling negative, I mentally cheer him on. I like to see other guys making it, and if I get a chance to help I do. Instead of letting stuff affect you negatively, look at everything positively, and don't overanalyze. If she's that hot, don't even care.

I don't have that "hesitation" when I believe there won't be any attraction. I've actually only felt the "pressure" when I know the girl is about my level in looks and wants me bad.

The only problem with this train of thought is that once or twice I have successfully attracted the Hb9, and by the time I realized what I was doing unconciously, that it has been too late to actually make a move.

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edit: and I know you don't want "pick-up" but honestly, we all want to hit that. don't deny it.

but like I said, just accept that you can't have her, and never will, and just go on with your business.

 

[S-lemond]

nice

 

[Stag]

Originally posted by Alphathree
It's hard to convey my game on an Internet forum, you know?

I do occasionally approach a compelling women, maybe once or twice a week. But actually, I'm a busy man, and I find that women are naturally drawn to me when I've got my game on.

I don't have problems with numbers. I don't even necessarily "want" the fictional HB10 described in my OP. I'm happy with my choices at the moment.

I just want to know how to have her not affect my state. What if I'm doing homework or eating lunch?

My attitude isn't lazy. I work on myself every day, and the more I work on myself, the more good things happen outside of me.

HOWEVER, thank you for responding, as you've indirectly given me an idea.

If I simply approach a few HB"11"s, that will probably stop them from affecting my state in the future, so I can concentrate on whatever the hell it was I was doing.

Hahaha. I might sound harsh on the internet, but I just mean good, Im actually really nice.
Anyway. I think the problem is that deep down u want this hb10. But your mind is finding excuses. Oh, I dont really want her...I have enuff babes runnin around...etc, etc. If that was true and u didnt want her then u woudlnt be writing this post, right?
See what I mean. YOur mind is coming up with blockers and u dont even notice it, U r not aware of it. Im trying to make u aware of it, thats all. Dont just dismiss my words, actually think about it.
We are most scared of admitting to ourselves that we are scared.
So, next time you see that chick, super babe of yours, be aware of how your mind is trying to prevent you from getting her, and then destroy these stupid excuses, say to yourself, this is not going to stop me from geting hat I want.
You might not get the babe,m but you will feel better because you will become a little bit more free.
The more u become aware of blockers, the freer u will get.
Good luck.

 

[RaWBLooD]

Originally posted by Alphathree
A long time ago, I used to worship women of all stripes, be nice to them, and so on.

Thanks to countless websites and products and people, I don't anymore.

But there's still one final frontier. One part of my inner game that's so strong, so rooted in evolutionary psychology, that it's tough for me to beat.

See, I know that it's important to not let hot women "affect" me, my state, or my reality.

Most of the time, up to HB8.5/9, I'm capable of holding up my reality, and that's crucial to my game.

But every once in a while I'll see an HB10 who just knocks me out of the water before speaking a single word.

Today, in particular, I saw an HB10 in SHORT, TIGHT white shorts with perfectly tanned, perfectly toned, long silky legs and a pair of flip flops.

You guys know the feeling. I caught myself crushing on her right away. Anxiety. Fear. The need to **** her right there and then. All of those _AFC_ thoughts.

I realize this is a limiting belief on my part, but I'd say one out of every few thousand women I encounter is just so hot, so provocative, so untouchable, that my reality gets shaken by her presence.

It's hard to replicate this as a mere picture won't do it for me. It's her presence and her feminine energy that really shakes me.

I meet such an HB10 so rarely that I don't have time to practice my counter-magic.

I've tried things like on-the-spot David DeAngelo-style affirmations:
"I am enough"
"I like myself"
"That's nice." (WRT to her hotness... this is a favorite of mine)

These help a bit.

I realize the three second rule might be helpful here, but if I'm in a situation where I can't approach, then this doesn't apply.

UNDERSTAND that I'm not asking how to ATTRACT such an HB10. Im asking how to stop her from affecting my reality.

Because even if I'm gaming an HB9, a nearby HB10 who affects my reality is a problem.

I have a feeling the real answer to this question, as with everything else I've learned, is study, practice, and time.

That said, I'd be curious to hear the strategies of other males when they encounter such a bombshell. Again, not how you pick her up, but how you manage your state in the odd case when you feel it getting shaken.

dude WTF?
wtf r u talking about.

 

[RaWBLooD]

Originally posted by Alphathree
Good thought, except that I'd probably screw up the approach if my state is bad, and since the premise of this post is that my state is bad in this case... you get the point. =)

Besides, approaches are needy.

Women come to me. =)

(I'm not just saying this as an affirmation... my style is really very passive and it works well for me.)

you've got the disease called excusitis !
treat it, it gets worse day by day and can ultimately be incurable

 

[RaWBLooD]

Originally posted by aftershock
I find it too, but not very often. Theres only one HB10 in the last couple of years thats left me speechless. She was speaking and I was just silenced. This was at work by the way, she works in the same town as me and comes in sometimes.

Next time she came in, we were talking and then told me that she spends £25 a week on facials. So I told her "You do realise that you spend £1,300 a year on facials?" Now it wasn't the best line I've ever come up with, but ridiculing a HB10 by telling her that she wastes over two thousand dollars a year on cosmetic treatment is rather fun.

I have honestly no idea what affect it had on her, but at least its different! (Well actually I have ideas but I can't be arsed to post them - I'll claim ignorance instead!)

Funnily enough she fancies a guy I work with. I've told him to bang her but he won't and I can't work out why. I thought he was a DJ when I met him, but now he's in the AFC category. Loser.

Now, I know that it hasn't really answered your question, but I think that as long as it's not happening all the time you are alright. Allow yourself to be amazed at one HB10 every six months or something.

EVERYONE HAS A WEAKNESS.
USE It, dont abuse it.:woo:
dont ignore it !!!

 

[RaWBLooD]

Originally posted by Alphathree
It's hard to convey my game on an Internet forum, you know?

I do occasionally approach a compelling women, maybe once or twice a week. But actually, I'm a busy man, and I find that women are naturally drawn to me when I've got my game on.

I don't have problems with numbers. I don't even necessarily "want" the fictional HB10 described in my OP. I'm happy with my choices at the moment.

I just want to know how to have her not affect my state. What if I'm doing homework or eating lunch?

My attitude isn't lazy. I work on myself every day, and the more I work on myself, the more good things happen outside of me.

HOWEVER, thank you for responding, as you've indirectly given me an idea.

If I simply approach a few HB"11"s, that will probably stop them from affecting my state in the future, so I can concentrate on whatever the hell it was I was doing.

u are so busy, that while u are stnading in line to get a coffee, or w/e you cant talk to the women next to you in line ?

 

[RaWBLooD]

Originally posted by bbestar
I recently saw a few HB 9's today...

what helped out is

1. Pretend that the target will Never be attracted to you.
And To accept it at face value.

2. Pretend that there parents had an abortion and she never existed.

wtf ?
denial is not the answer.

.
omg wtf is wrong wit u people !?

 

[RaWBLooD]

Originally posted by Alphathree
Everyone seems to be misunderstanding me here.

I'm NOT TRYING TO WIN THE HB10.

I've got plenty of HB8s and 9s running around in my social circle. I don't need extras at the moment.

Stop trying to stuff words in my mouth, heh.

I'm asking a very narrow and specific question about state control, and that's it.

YOU are asking us, why you cant handle the diamonds, when you already own the gold, WE TRYIN TO HELP U, BY SHOWING U THE MISTAKES, and you are pretending they are not there !