Congruence tests from girls with no interest?

[zekko]

Do girls who aren't interested in you give you sh!t tests? I was just wondering because I couldn't help but notice this HB5 at work was testing me. She was basically teasing me about my hair and personality, I got the impression she was probing for signs of insecurity. I've been pretty much bulletproof as far as being self assured lately, thanks partly to this site, so she found none. Not that I cared anyway, since as an HB5 she's a little under my radar.

She will be a little flirty with me sometimes, nothing much. I don't think she WANTS me or anything like that although clearly I would be a great value catch for her. She's married and was just having a bit of fun I think.

It just interested me that she was giving me sh!t tests. See, call me slow on the uptake, but before I started studying this seduction stuff, I swear I NEVER NOTICED this whole sh!t test business. I never knew that girls gave tests like this, so this was a big revelation for me. So I guess my question is do you find that girls who are not interested in you give you sh!t tests?

 

[Luminescence]

She's an HB5? Assuming your looks arent too bad, she's probably just trying to give you the impression that you really don't effect her as much as you really do.

 

[Exhumed]

Well in a way I think almost all girls as well as some guys will challenge your dominance or confidence, I hung out with some girls a few days ago who I made friends with when I was much more shy and hadn't chilled with much recently, they were rude and pushy at first but I didn't tolerate it. So yeah I'd say sh!t tests happen quite frequently regardless

 

[slaog]

Its just her getting to know you better I'd say, like DJs do when they're having fun with women. She wouldn't flirt with you if she didn't like you and it sounds like


In a way everything is a sh!t test when people don't know each other well but real sh!t tests are when women want to really find out what you're like on the inside ie when they're getting to know you and want to see the real you before they make a long term commitment. Its a great way for them to see the real you and if you're a DJ sh!t tests are great. Thats my opinion of sh!t tests.


PS check out the link in my signature called 'the sh!t test everybody fails'.

 

[zekko]

She's an HB5? Assuming your looks arent too bad, she's probably just trying to give you the impression that you really don't effect her as much as you really do.

Like tossing a neg? Lol, possibly. I just got the distinct impression she was testing me. Who knows why? Boredom at work, I suppose.
Do girls toss negs? Intentionally?

 

[horaholic]

girls usually dont test guys consciously.