"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Congrats Women Your Getting Your Equal Rights

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This article here is about women paying alimony. They wanted equal rights and are slowly getting it. Although I don't think we will ever see it truly equal because how much alimony can a guy really collect off of a woman living off of the government or working part-time as a cashier at XYZ Gas Station? I still think this is funny as he|| though.Anderson Pooper was in this video and he is the journalist I singly, without a doubt, HATE more than any other.


I actually recently talked to a woman on POF who was all up in arms over this. She was an exception to living off of the government and working as a gas station ho'. She was in process of divorce. Works a good job as a CNA. Says as of now she is paying her ex hubby $900/month and she is FURIOUS. The ex is a high school teacher, so not totally poor, but she makes more than him so PAY UP B|TCH. LMFAO She said she had to move back in with her parent and feels "poor" now. She tried the best trick in the book in getting an order of protection on him and of course told me how abused she was. That still didn't stop her from having to pay.

Take a little victory like this whenever you come across this. This whole thing made my day. You want equal rights women, well here ya go.....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Allomony is a weird concept... Glad it doesnt exist here.

But we do have child support until the kids are 18 or out of school
 

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Illinois just passed a statute that governs alimony. It takes all the discretion out of the judge's hands, much like mandatory minimum prison sentences, which I have always despised. There's a chart based on years together, and the percentage the payee receives and for how long.

CNAs make $10/hr in my area, maybe a little more by you, but it is not any better of pay than working in a gas station. Burger King here starts at $9/hr.
 
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