"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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confused...

Bjj_playa

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last week i met this girl from a friend, i got her email, we talked online for a few days...i only talked to her at school twice, for about 5 mins since then. yesturday i told her i wanted to hang out this weekend, she seemed pretty interested and told me to call her today. so i called her in the evening, but she flaked on me. she told me she was "too lazy" to leave the house and do anything. i assumed she just lost interest, i dont want to be chasing girls around like i used to in the past, but then 20 mins later she messages me on msn saying how sorry she is, and that on monday night after school we can hang out if i want.

maybe she really was "too lazy" to do anything tonight? im confused here
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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confused? your straight, dont be so confused about that s hit.
 

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Then you should punish her. Dont agree to hang out on Monday with her. Let her ask you instead so that she wont flake out on you.

Also <DD newsletter> You could make fun of her because it's
obvious that she didn't have enough money to pay
her phone bill and when she tried to call you back
she found that her phone was disconnected but that
it's nothing to be ashamed of and you'll take pity
on her and buy her some ramen noodle soup while
she's broke and hungry.

Just make sure you're lighthearted about it,
and you communicate that you could really care
less that she didn't call you back... but that
you're going to take the opportunity to bust on
her because she's in your presence. <DD newsletter>
 
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