Confused, Some help plz!

[liarsenic89]

Hey!

So long story short: There's a girl that i kind of know through mutual friends for almost 2 years now. And Sometime last year she started to talk to me very frequently online and IRL. I was in a relationship with another girl at the moment so it was the usual "friends" conversations, but my girlfriend thought that she clearly was flirting with me.

After a couple of months later my gf broke up with me (not related to this other girl) and this other girl started to give some signals of interest. (or continued if she was flirting with me before)

She said she wanted me to come over so we could cuddle and stuff, you know that typical cutesey girly stuff.

But sometimes she started to talk about other guys in front of me etc, and i wasn't aware what was going on. Some time went by and she continued to give me mixed signals and after a while all of a sudden she started to ignore me.

Yesterday i met her for the first time after maybe 3 months and she started to give like 1 minute long hugs and she said that she had missed me alot.
And i kinda just played along. Before i went home that night she gave another freaking long hug and then we said goodbye.
I'm pretty confused what is going on, i texted her later that night and today and she answered me pretty fast.

What the f is going on? Is she playing me or is she interested or what the hell?

*PS I've had a thing for this girl for a long time.

Sorry for the wall of text and crappy grammar, im freaking tired.

 

[TheGambino]

Dont think, obey your d1ck, next time she cuddles you be a f*cking man. That's what seperates you from a wussy friend to an attractive don juan. Kino her back, grab her hand and lead her to a private spot. Kino her more, make her laugh and kiss her. Basically escalate, make moves, she makes it easy for you but you have to make the big steps know. So don't analyze or anything next time you see her and she touches you, you make work of it That's basically all you need to do, if she refuses your advances just act like nothing happened don't say too much and disappear. It's all that easy. Let her do all the thinking, mixed signal crap is for her, you escalate if she refuses you know she aint interested and you move on.

The only way too find out what shes about is to make moves on her, ask her out or just do it the next time she gives you a hugg, touch her and see how she reacts, if she likes it jump to the next move, more touching, flirting and kiss

 

[NorwegianDJ]

It's very simple: Put yourself in her position.

You like this girl, but she has a boyfriend. You still talk to her and flirt with her. She doesnt have a boyfriend anymore, you propose to hang out (it seems from your post, that she - you - turned it down). The girl doesn't give you any sure signals (you didnt go for her), so you eventually give up on it as it slowly stales out.

You now see her 3 months later and your feelings for her are refreshed - maybe it can work now?

What do you need to do? Be a fvcking man about it and take action upon what you desire. No mixed reactions due to her not giving you the reassurance you need.