Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Confused as where to go with this girl (single mom)

OptiX

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OK heres a quick run down. Basically I met this girl who is a single mother @ 20. We both go to university, but different ones, she commutes. So anyway we met at a movie theatre last Thursday and watch the movie and joke around abit whatever. Movies over and as we are leaving I give her a quick hug and am about to go my own way (since I bussed it there, and she drove and I don't know way back to where I live in a car), so she goes "thats it?, youre not even going to walk me back to my car?". So I walk her back to her car and she seems suprised that I was just going to leave like that so I just told her it was "a test to see her reaction". So we get to her car and I give her a big hug and she asks me if I want to come in, so I get in. And I tell her shes gonna drive me home, but I don't really know how to get home from the theatre in a car and she doesn't either so I just tell her I'll bus it. So she drives me back up to the theatre so I can get out and bus it, so I give her a quick kiss on the lips, and she goes "thats it" lol so I close the door again and makeout with her for a little longer with some tongue - and I have to leave cause I'm not sure about the bus closing time (late at night we saw this movie) and I can tell she doesn't want me to leave by the look in her eyes and her grabbing my hand.

So anyways I call her the next day and ask her to come over and hang out - she tells me that the way I left yesterday was not cool "you made me want you, and then you just left" so anyways she tells me it was too short notice and she couldnt come today, but tommorow.

So she calls me up the next day busses it over and after we get high I start making the moves on her. I eventually do have sex with her, but shes puts up some resistance I made a mistake when she asked me a question. She was like "how many girls do you have over here" and I said something like "a good amount", and she started thinking I was a player. So I told her a good amount meant "not alot" - anways she wouldn't believe me and kept going over that stupid thing the whole night. And she was like is this thing between us only sexual?.

So to wrap it up she had to leave a couple hours later since she told her mom thats when she'd be home. So we call her a taxi and she gets upset because when the taxi shows up its the same guy that drove her there before and she says hes a creep, so i tell him to hold up as we get money from an atm. So she basically tells me she wants me to come home with her that night and stay in her room (she lives with her mom or both mom/dad and her sister and her kid), so I was like noo I can't do that. So anyways she gets in the taxi and tells me to stay on the phone with her so she doesnt have to talk the creepy taxi guy so I'm talking to her about bs as she drives back, when she gets back she tells me she had a good night and I should call her the next day, and that I dont only have to call her at night. I didnt call her the next day.

Also how wierd is this? I was having sex with her with a condom on most of the time and I couldn't *** cause I had drank+gotten high so after awhile she started jacking me off and took the condom off and then told me "to stick it in like this". I said no that I didnt do that, and that was basically at the end of the whole thing cause she had to leave soon.

So the whole point of this is - do you think this is doable as a FB, cause thats really all I want, but I'm not sure if I can just keep calling her to hang out without saying much else on the phone. What do you guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I didn't read your post. I only read the title. If you get involved with a single mom, be prepared to grow attached to her children and hope she doesn't dump you because once it's over, you won't see them again. When it's your own children, you'll see them again and probably at your request. It's up to you.
 

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Single mother and 20? Still lives at home with mom/dad?

Bail? Bail.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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RED FLAG!!! Get the f*ck out of there and don't look back. This has disaster written all over it

do you think this is doable as a FB, <-- Maybe thats how she got to be a single mother in the first place.
 

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She wants to do it without a condom. Wönder why she's a single mom!? Run run! Red flags all over.

To late, she knows your number, where you live and you already stuck it to her! And she was willing to take the risk of anothe pregancy.

Guess who gonna be her next bady daddy.
 
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Yeah I've had some fun with single mom's in my AFC days. I even went far enough with one where her kid started calling me daddy.

They are fun for a few bangs, what is the question here?
 

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ZenGodMod said:
She wants to do it without a condom. Wönder why she's a single mom!? Run run! Red flags all over.

To late, she knows your number, where you live and you already stuck it to her! And she was willing to take the risk of anothe pregancy.

Guess who gonna be her next bady daddy.
Hmm you make some good points. Good thing I used a condom and never cummed that night. Hmm maybe you guys are right and this is dangerous water.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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