"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Confused About this Girl...

bambino

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There is this HB 8-9 and I've gotten her to go after me over the past few weeks.. Kino and whatever. I can sense interest. She leans/hugs on me and stuff when I'm just chillin with a group of friends.

BUT my best friend asks her a couple days ago (without me telling him to) if she would "tap" me and she said something like, "No, I don't like him like that." so :confused: . I'm still going to play on her but will this one be worth my time?

Note: She's been playing "hard to get" or maybe "avoiding me" but then she comes to me when I do the same "hard to get" "avoiding" her.

I know she could be a tease. Or the "Miss Sunshine" thing... But this girl is really confusing me with her signs and all that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Charm&Style

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Dude any girl who gets asked by a guy would u tap my friend would say NO. She doesnt want to be seen as an easy/slvtty girl.

Even a hoe that everyone knows is a hoe would still say NO.

Plz refer back to djbible.

keep working your game and get her alone.

Kapish ??


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art of

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I agree with charm. It sounds like you were doing all right before your friend pulled his goofy unthought out stunt, why not just keep it up. If shes comfortable enough to kino with you already have a foot in the door.
 
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