There is this girl in my university who is very attractive - the kind of popular girl around campus. I myself am good looking (I did not know this earlier. I recently connected the dots after reading 'too good looking' and related threads here). I had a crush on her but seeing boys flocking towards her, I always assumed she is unattainable. Personally, I have some issues from my childhood regarding relationships, arising due to a toxic household, which stopped me, and another reason was my introvert/shy nature when it comes to girls. All issues contributed towards me not approaching her. Now I found out that she somehow likes me!!!
A few months ago I heard she got engaged and it broke numerous hearts including mine
. Now she's getting married soon. Now here is the kicker: She still have feelings for me but is continuing with her marriage preparations. This is confusing me. If she is not completely happy about her marriage and still somtimes 'looks' at me, why is she going ahead with it? I feel like she wants to be rescued from the marriage and her family pressure to get married but why should I be the one when i barely know her even though we had an 'instant connection' during our talk.
Should i talk to her now when it just days before her wedding, or stay back?
A few months ago I heard she got engaged and it broke numerous hearts including mine
. Now she's getting married soon. Now here is the kicker: She still have feelings for me but is continuing with her marriage preparations. This is confusing me. If she is not completely happy about her marriage and still somtimes 'looks' at me, why is she going ahead with it? I feel like she wants to be rescued from the marriage and her family pressure to get married but why should I be the one when i barely know her even though we had an 'instant connection' during our talk.Should i talk to her now when it just days before her wedding, or stay back?