"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jair213

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People will pick up on it once you start feeling confident.
They will see it in your bodylanguage, face expressions, etc.

But why do other Men or people in general pick up on it and they somehow dislike you For it? Im not talking about being overly confident and acting like a bad ass prick.

Some chicks find it atractive etc but has anyone notice this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jair213 said:
But why do other Men or people in general pick up on it and they somehow dislike you For it?
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They see you as a threat....or are jealous/envious.

When a guy:
-Sees attractive man with good musculature successfully hitting on women they say...."That guy is a toolbag"

What they REALLY mean is "Damn...im so envious of that dude. Those girls want him so bad....I want girls to want me that bad:cry: "

Its all perception...
 
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TheException said:
They see you as a threat....or are jealous/envious.

When a guy:
-Sees attractive man with good musculature successfully hitting on women they say...."That guy is a toolbag"

What they REALLY mean is "Damn...im so envious of that dude. Those girls want him so bad....I want girls to want me that bad:cry: "

Its all perception...
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You certainly are the exception.

Even men do this, and alot of time they it. Men are as illogal as women. End of story.
 
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TheException said:
They see you as a threat....or are jealous/envious.

When a guy:
-Sees attractive man with good musculature successfully hitting on women they say...."That guy is a toolbag"

What they REALLY mean is "Damn...im so envious of that dude. Those girls want him so bad....I want girls to want me that bad:cry: "

Its all perception...
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Are you the same exception from bb.com?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BraddH said:
You certainly are the exception.

Even men do this, and alot of time they it. Men are as illogal as women. End of story.
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You deserve way more than two red dots under your name, Madame.
 
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