Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Condoms with a new girl friend?

Peter.Siffredi

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Hi guys,

After being single for several years, I've recently started seeing a girl. She's in her late 20's, has a decent career, has a nice place and probably earns a lot more than me.

So far, things are going great, but one thing slightly worries me - she says she's on the pill and I haven't been using a condom. I didn't want to make things awkward and insist, but her getting pregnant would be a major bum.

I'm not too sure how to approach the situation - should I just man up and insist on condoms?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ronaldo7

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Never trust a hoe. Ever. Ever.

Always wear a condom. Women's logic is flawed and has plenty of fallacies in it. Treat her like a retard when she says anything. In both cases, they don't know better. You don't want kids getting in the way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Atom Smasher

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OP, if that's your real given name know that this forum is indexed by Google.
 

Packers2010

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my rule is, i'm using a condom no matter what.

when i was ****ing my last girl. i KNEW where she had been ( we been friends for ever, she didn't have many guy friends hanging around. i know cos she sexed me. )

and she told me she was on the pill. still used a condom.
 
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Harry Wilmington

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Not gonna lie - I once dated a girl that was on the pill (she took them everyday except during the week of her period) and also had some kind of uterus thing going on where it was hard for her to produce kids. So we didn't use a condom - that ish felt GREAT!

With that said, though: unless you see her actually popping the pills, keep a condom handy. Plus, if she's sick and using other medicines, they can sometimes cancel out the effectiveness of the pill and you can get her pregnant. Pills are like 97% preventative, whereas condoms are 99% (the 1% being when they break).
 

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Packers2010 said:
my rule is, i'm using a condom no matter what.
Agreed. My woman isn't on the pill, she gets that periodic injection instead, but despite that I've been using a condom since day one and she agrees with me that it's better to be extra safe.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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JoeMarron

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Always pull out condoms or not if you truly don't wanna get a chick pregnant.
 

Fatal Jay

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lol dude she on the pill, and you been bare backing, lmao

if a chick is on the pill she sleeps around. Always wear a condom, and if you don't like the feel of condoms then get Trojan extasy condoms, it literally feels like your not wearing anything.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
if a chick is on the pill she sleeps around.
+1 and Rep.

Also . . . Pill or shot = progesterone (synthetic or natural). Turns them into dry but excessively bloody, hateful c0ckblockers with vaginal atrophy and deflated breasts, whose bodies think they're pregnant. Suppresses their production of androgens (which reduces libido) and estrogens (which reduces feminine behavior). Leaves them defenseless against yeast infections, bacterial vaginitis, and a slew of other stinky genitourinary diseases. By interfering with their natural cycle of hormonal imbalances, supplementary progesterone rapidly distorts their mental processes (in particular, their emotional responses).

Besides, trust what women do, not what they say. There's no way to confirm that they got the shot or took the pill. For the sake of your mental health, gentlemen, advise your women to get off chemical castration and stay off it.
 
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