Compliments....

[Tony T]

Not sure how to handle complimenting a women these days.

I hear advice to Neg Hit the Hotties...and compliment the average girls (7's and lower).

1. If i compliment a chick, will she think less of me?
2. Do i become a chump because i pay her a compliment?
3. What type of compliment's should i bestow on these women?

A lot of confusion going on these days....
:crazy:

 

[robinincarolina]

Compliment something other than her appearance, they all compliment on appearance, go for something unique about her personality to show you are paying attention.

 

[jonwon]

Not sure how to handle complimenting a women these days.

I hear advice to Neg Hit the Hotties...and compliment the average girls (7's and lower).

1. If i compliment a chick, will she think less of me?
2. Do i become a chump because i pay her a compliment?
3. What type of compliment's should i bestow on these women?

A lot of confusion going on these days....
:crazy:

Relationships
Keep compliments to a bear minimum, trust me on that!

Compliment her (if you have to) on things she does that you want to re-enforce the behavour - for example she makes you something to eat, compliment her on her cooking - but be honest "hey that was great, could use a little salt though, I think you should cook again I feel spoilt".

Dont compliment a women for the sake of complimenting them - Just dont.

Only use a compliment has a re-enforcer for good behaviour - and only compliment her looks if she has made an effort to look attractive for you.


Picking up.
You can compliment them when talking to her - It just how you deliver it.

For example you can say "Wow your stunning" and look her deep in the eye and hold eye contact - Is more often then not ok.

Or being really brash

"Dam you have a great Ass"

The turn around to your mate, sharp as shi8 and go, hey hasn't she got a great As*.

Believe it or not - its more or less the delivery rather then the content.

Just be concurrent, dont back down - dont apologise or bend your frame - be strong look her in the eye - e.t.c

Compliments work on all forms of girls - I have used them to open chicks and a mate of mine who is great with girls uses them too - If he feels like it - If I told him to neg, he'd laugth at me and tell me to get real - he does what he wants and makes no apology for that fact - hence the way you deliver youself is more key then the actual content or the meaning - he also gives the women alot of tests too, laugth's at them, tosses in ****y and funny - so the compliment is just an opener, he doesn't dwell on it, its just a way in.

Compliments can seem more confortable - so give em a try - just be careful you dont chump out if she starts to throw some shi* tests back, which could happen.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I don't compliment unless I really mean it. I mix it up with brutal honesty, so I come off as genuine. Compliments are best used sparingly, but genuinely. They are a part of the push-pull routine.

Another good compliment rule - it is never ok to compliment a woman on her body...until she gets naked. Then it works.

 

[speed dawg]

Tell her that her hair smells good or something along those lines. Or something equally as ghey. It works.

Maybe try telling her that her outfit looks good. You're actually complimenting her style, not necessarily 'her' as in her God-given looks.

 

[Soprano]

its all about delivery my dude. if you've got an attitude or confidence or swagger where you can pull it off then you can say whatever you want. if you say it link a chump you're gonna look bad, say it really brash like the dude up there ^ said.

 

[youbaby11]

man last time around i got too comfortable and complimented my last girl waaay too much i didnt catch myself