Complicated spot, need help!!!

[DontDoDrugs]

Ok, let me try to make this brief ( as possible ). Theres this girl I've known for like 3 months. I know her through a mutual friend who she liked but he didn't like her back. So anyways, this girl goes to my school ( sophomore like me ) and right now we dont know each other that that well. We talk during passing periods and whenever we see eachother at soccer, phone calls, etc, but havn't really 'hung out' except for at school a little. 1st of, all the guys kiss her ass and say how gorgeous she is, etc etc. When she see's me she always gives me a warm smile and sits next to me regardless of whose in the crowd/group. I try to do the 2 steps forward 1 step back to make sure I distinct myself from other guys by not kissing her ass. I tease her a lot and she seems to like it. All these clues probably make it seem like she's into me, but at the same time I can't really tell cause like I said she used to like my friend and she acts pretty different around him. Also her friends havn't really said much to me. So I can't really tell how into me she really is. ( this situation is kinda weird cause like I said she liked one of my best friends, and also one of my other close friends liked her but she didn't. So it'd be akward if I just tried to kiss her and it didn't work out lol.

So, as luck may have it, she's in spanish 3-4, and im in 7-8 and she has a D in that class so I said that I should come over and help her with spanish and she said that sounds good. So anyway, 3 day weekend coming up, and Im gonna most likely go over to her house. ( I'm gonna try to hint that we'd get more work done if we were alone, cause I think her stupid friend wants to tag along ). So basically Im not sure what my gameplan is going into there. Part of me says just go for it full on and lay the kino on her, but other half says just go there and chill, have fun, get to know her more, play it safe.

I was thinking to maybe bring a movie and then we could get feely and I'd have my shot at kissing her or w/e. Or...we also live like 1/2 mile from the beach...so we could go there, but cant really do anything there except for hangout like friends which was plan B, and I really wanna do plan A lol.

So guys I need some input on which route to pick....cause I really dont wanna eff things up with her cause she's real cool and I see her around school all the time and she talks to my friends. Plus I dont wanna make **** even more weird with my friends lol. Im in need of a safe way to see if she's into me. I mean I know the best way is just being very touchy and doing the kiss test, but all that says "hey I wanna be more than friends" and I know if I do that and she's not receptive she'll probably be weirded out.

Thanks for taking the time to read it....any input is welcomed.

 

[toddC]

Well i'm in no way a great DJ yet but if I had to input here it would be this...

Your going over her house to study, correct?
So why would you bring a movie? Now if you specified like on the phone or soemthing..."I'm going to bring a movie too just incase we get bored with studying" or soemthing then that would be fine, however just bringign it I don't think would work too well. But then again I'm not completley DJ so I wouldn't know lol.

 

[MrS]

if youre going to go and help her study, make sure you get some studying done.
then do the gaming.
the movie could be for later, but be straight, dont **** around from the start, she might appreciate the bonus of spanish actually being helped with

 

[DontDoDrugs]

Yah, first off Im actually gonna help her with her spanish...It's real easy stuff lol. Also, we agreed we could hang out after too, which is why Im thinkin of bringing a movie.